Stress and fertility: What you need to know

Written in association with: Dr Anu Chawla
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Edited by: Kate Forristal

If you've been on the journey to conceive, you've likely encountered various well-meaning but sometimes unhelpful advice, with the most common refrain being, "Don't stress about it." Does stress really affect your chances of getting pregnant, and if so, what can you do about it? The answers to these questions are not straightforward. In her latest online article, Dr Anu Chawla delves into the details.

 

The link between stress and fertility:

The medical community has extensively debated the connection between stress and infertility. However, it's challenging to provide a definitive answer because the evidence remains inconclusive. Women all over the world conceive in incredibly stressful circumstances, such as during wars or displacement. Yet, we know that stress can trigger the release of cortisol, the body's primary stress hormone. Elevated cortisol levels, especially over extended periods, can have detrimental effects on various body systems, leading to issues like inflammation, impacting the gut, immune system, and thyroid function. These problems can, in turn, affect a woman's reproductive health, including ovulation, menstruation, and embryo implantation. While we don't want to perpetuate the idea of stressing about stress, it's advisable to seek ways to reduce your stress levels. Simplify your life, eliminate unnecessary hassles, and prioritise self-care, especially since you already have plenty on your plate. For practical tips on managing stress, see below.

 

 

Can you conceive while stressed?

Dr Chawla emphasises, "We fertility doctors are frequently asked if pregnancy is possible while experiencing stress. It's a valid concern but also somewhat misleading." As mentioned earlier, stress can impact bodily systems, but countless women get pregnant in stressful situations. Therefore, it's not accurate to claim that women can't conceive when stressed. Furthermore, several other crucial factors affect fertility, including age, maintaining a healthy weight, and addressing hormonal imbalances like PCOS or endometriosis. Rather than getting caught in a stress-about-stress cycle, focus on factors you can control. Consider a fertility check to address potential issues, adopt a healthy diet, practice effective stress-reduction techniques, and prioritise self-care.

 

 

Ways to relax while trying to conceive:

Reducing stress during the journey to conception may involve some trial and error to find what works best for you. Critically, avoid self-criticism and explore practical steps to ease stress. Here are 11 strategies to consider:

Cut down on caffeine: Excessive caffeine intake can heighten anxiety, so consider reducing your consumption.

 

Explore complementary therapies: Acupuncture and massage have helped many women relax during their fertility journey.

 

Incorporate exercise: Moderate workouts release stress-reducing chemicals, but avoid high-intensity exercises late at night.

 

Disconnect from social media: Limit your exposure to stress-inducing content by taking breaks from social media.

 

Talk it out: Share your concerns with a friend or counsellor to relieve background stress and anxiety.

 

Meditate: Even a few minutes of daily meditation can improve your mental well-being.

 

Take a relaxing bath: A bubble bath with soothing salts is an affordable way to unwind.

 

Reduce alcohol intake: Alcohol can exacerbate stress and negatively affect fertility, so consider cutting down or abstaining.

 

Quit smoking: Nicotine, like caffeine, is a stimulant that can increase anxiety.

 

Schedule worry time or keep a worry journal: Allocate specific times to address worries, a technique used in cognitive behavioural therapy.

 

Consider a fertility check: Knowing more about your fertility status can alleviate uncertainty during the conception journey.

 

Remember that everyone's experience is unique, so choose the strategies that resonate with you and your lifestyle.

 

Dr Anu Chawla is an esteemed fertility specialist with over 15 years of experience. You can schedule an appointment with Dr Chawla on her Top Doctors profile.

By Dr Anu Chawla
Fertility specialist

Dr Anu Chawla is a highly-experienced senior fertility specialist, practicing Advanced Reproductive Medicine, in London

Her area of expertise is in Advanced Fertility PracticeRepeated IVF failures, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, PCOSEndometriosis (Current Chairperson of Endometriosis Committee of FOGSI), Reproductive Immunology, Egg Freezing, Fibroids, Male Factor Infertility.

Dr Chawla qualified in medicine in Gujarat University in 2007 and then went on to pursue a Master's degree in obstetrics and gynaecology.  She became a member of the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, London, in due course.  

She also obtained a diplomate of the National Board in Obstetrics and Gynaecology. She holds Three Post Graduation Degrees in Obstetrics and Gynaecology, one from UK, two from India, from reputable universities. In addition, she did Advanced Fellowship in Minimal Access Surgery and another Fellowship in Reproductive Medicine.

She trained in Advanced Level 3D Pelvic Ultrasounds with Prof Stuart Campbell, in London.

She went to the United States to do a Reproductive Medicine Observership Programme at National Institutes of Health, Bethesda, Shady Grove Fertility Clinics in Bethesda, Maryland, USA, and in IVF Department at the EVMS Jones Institute in Virginia, USA, Centre of Reproductive Medicine New York, New Hope Fertility Centre New York.  

Dr Chawla has been previously appointed as a clinical lead consultant in Advanced Fertility Department at various leading teams in India, where she also founded the esteemed IVF department at the Fortis Memorial Research Institute at Gurgaon in Delhi Region.

Her high success rate and clinical excellence in Fertility Practice, with global expertise and perspective, brought her an offer to come back to London and join St. Bartholomew’s Hospital and the Queen Mary University, London Hospital as a Senior Fertility Specialist, where she did huge numbers of egg collections, embryo transfers etc.

She worked at Create Fertility, St. Paul’s, London and The Fertility and Gynaecology Academy, London.

Combining clinical expertise in both gynaecological Fertility Enhancing Surgery and Reproductive Medicine, Dr Chawla's patients benefit from her sensitive, comprehensive and continuous care throughout their conception journey. 

Dr Anu Chawla's has been actively contributing to the various gynaecology associations, like Royal College of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, RCOG, London, The International Federation of OBGYN, FIGO, and the Federation of Obstetrics and Gynaecological Societies in India (FOGSI), amongst others.  

Dr Chawla is a regular invited faculty speaker, at various international and academic key fertility and OBGYN conferences around the world. Most recently, she was invited to chair a film festival session on the topic of Sexual and Reproductive Health and Wellbeing at the XXIV FIGO World Congress of Gynecology and Obstetrics. She was additionally actively involved in campaigning to extend the time span of egg freezing for women in the UK, an amendment which has now been successfully enacted in to law. Dr Chawla also regularly conducts charitable medical projects in India, providing low cost reproductive and gynaecological care for those in need.

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